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How my Pastor proposed to me three months after my husband’s demise

Based on the message that was sent. This returnee from America is perplexed by her pastor’s proposal. She says she and her husband moved back to Nigeria from America at the beginning of this year.

After spending all these years in America, the husband opted to spend his final days in Nigeria due to a severe ailment. The woman informed the relationship expert of these things;

Hello Osigwe, how are you doing? Please publish so I can have good advice from your fans. My name is Jessica, and I am 60 years of age. I just buried my husband 3 months ago and am thinking of going back to America only for my pastor of 40 years to propose to me.

When we relocated back to Nigeria, my husband told me he needed to be more spiritual before his death. He wanted to attend a spirit-filled church. That was how we started a fast-growing church in our neighbourhood. My husband is a billionaire and died, leaving more billions behind. The founder of the church took a special interest in our membership and very soon became a family friend.

My husband showered him many gifts and bought a 2015 Mercedes for him. He knew he was going to die, so he never cared about the way he spent his money. And on the other hand, the founder of the church, Rev Chuks, is a very nice dude. He comes to the house every day and prays for my husband.

Least I forget my husband, and I have two sons working in the United States Army. My husband was planning to build a new auditorium for Rev Chuks when he died. Now, with loneliness on my part, I am considering relocating back to the States when Rev Chuks suddenly proposed to marry me.

Rev Chuks is cute and full of energy. He has promised to cherish and adore me, and to be frank, I see reasons why I can marry him. But here in lies some issues. I am 60; he is 40. Secondly, my husband showered him with so much love. Why would he want to marry his wife?

Someone told me he might want to use me to complete his auditorium, so I should stay off him. But truth be told, my husband has been paralyzed for the past ten years, and I have not seen any other man since then. Money is not my issue, as I cannot even afford to complete the church without a string attached and still go back to America.

But I want to ask whether I should accept his proposal. I wonder if he genuinely loves me or not.

Thanks, Jessica.

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