My pastor called me after church service and told me something that shocked me

In my search for love, I have come across a lot of dubious males. Every single one of them enters my life with honey pouring over their lips, to abandon me like a tolled car.

I could say that during this love journey, my heart has experienced many mishaps. I wanted to give up and turn into a cat woman at one point. Then Amos entered my life, though.

Amos was a kind man who made me question my motivation for ever wanting to give up on love. He fulfilled every desire I had ever had for a man.

If I just told him that I needed him, he would immediately put everything else aside and be at my side. I had the feeling of being his queen. I also gave him the royal treatment he deserved. To be honest, we had an excellent relationship.

“I’ve finally found the right man for me, thanks to my search for love.” As I revelled in his adoration, I told myself, “I’m glad I didn’t give up.”

Just when everything was flowing smoothly as butter, he shifted. He devised guidelines for our partnership. Although he didn’t say so, I was able to understand these guidelines by seeing how his behaviour changed.

We stopped using the phone as part of our routine. He would prefer to message me via SMS. He never would have called, not even in an emergency.

No matter how late I saw it, he would always leave me a text message when I demanded that you call me. This individual would make sure to cut the call short—no more than two minutes—and speed up the talk.

I repeatedly questioned him, “Why have you changed? Did I do something wrong? Tell me so we can work things out. He would reply, “Everything is OK.” I am exactly who I am. I questioned why he had never revealed this aspect of himself to me earlier. I never would have fallen in love with him, for heavens’ sake, if he hadn’t.

It was hard for me to end the relationship when I understood it wasn’t what I signed up for because of my love for him. I decided to become used to him, and eventually, I grew accustomed to the texts and the two-minute phone conversations. To persuade myself to stay with him, I told myself, “You can’t have it all.”

I once put him as my status update on WhatsApp. After reading the article, a friend said, “I know this guy.” I talked with my friend some more, and she gave me a lot of information on Amos.

It was implied by one of his remarks that he was seeing another woman. My friend and I had a conversation, and I asked him, “Do you know Akua? She claims to be familiar with you. Amos denied ever having known someone with that name.

Not long afterwards, my sister brought me to her church. “The Lord revealed something to me while we were praying,” the pastor remarked, pulling me aside after the service. It concerns the guy you are seeing. I suggest that you examine him carefully over time. The man you think he is is not the real one.

Please elaborate on what you observed in your vision. Knowing what he could be doing better will be helpful. At that point, he stated, “Your boyfriend is dating four people.”

Because he feels that he needs all four of you in his life, he doesn’t want to let any of you leave. Thus, exercise caution. It stunned me. He didn’t enjoy making calls, to be sure, but I never gave it a second thought that he was juggling me with three other women.

I turned to reflect on what my acquaintance had told me about him. I then proceeded to look over his Facebook page. While he concealed a great deal about himself, he neglected to disclose the locations he had lived and worked. And a few of those locations backed up Akua’s claims about him.

I told him, “I had a dream about you and some women,” when I contacted him right away. When the pastor revealed those three more women to me, I questioned him about them. He made no effort to correct my misconceptions. He hung up, seeming annoyed. “I don’t appreciate you asking me all those questions,” he texted me later.

You ought to trust me by now since you know me well enough. I didn’t hear from him again after that. I am still determining whether we are still together.

I made an effort to move on in order to prevent him from finding me alone when he returned, but the person who attracted my attention showed interest in my companion. And he conveyed his message through me.

My friend asked me, “What about you? ” after he was turned down. Are you free and unmarried? I enjoy you. Since then, I have yet to reply to his message. My friend’s rejection of him is the only reason he’s showing interest in me now. Although I’m not sure if I should accept someone’s second choice, I want to find love.

I’m exhausted from thinking about my past relationships right now. Amos had four of us when he was meant to be the only one.

I look like twenty-eight, but I’m actually thirty-seven. How long can I continue in this manner? What would happen if I woke up one day and discovered that my biological clock had stopped and I was still alone?

Will thinking about the person who initially showed interest in my pal is a bad idea? I need advice, please. Right now, I’m not in the best of moods.

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